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   <description><![CDATA[<h5>&#160;</h5>  <p>&#160; </p>  <p><img style="display: inline; margin: 5px 5px 10px 15px" height="256" src="http://img2.cache.netease.com/photo/0003/2008-12-19/4THS9VGV0BOd0003.jpg" width="186" align="right" /></p>  <div class="wlWriterEditableSmartContent" id="scid:0767317B-992E-4b12-91E0-4F059A8CECA8:0dc5e91f-6234-437b-8455-f7f9e55be9b1" style="padding-right: 0px; display: inline; padding-left: 0px; float: none; padding-bottom: 0px; margin: 0px; padding-top: 0px">Technorati 标签: <a href="http://technorati.com/tags/%e7%94%b5%e5%bd%b1" rel="tag">电影</a></div>  <p>&#160;&#160;&#160; 贾马尔·马里克（戴夫·帕特尔饰）,来自孟买的街头小青年，现在正遭到印度警方的审问与折磨。原因是贾马尔参加了一档印度版的《谁想成为百万富翁》电视直播节目，然而就在他面对最后一个问题之前，有人揭发了他作弊。贾马尔当然矢口否认。    <br />&#160;&#160;&#160; 在解释为什么能完美答对每道题的同时，贾马尔的生活也在我们眼前徐徐展开。他讲起了认识的一位宝莱坞明星，在一起抢劫事件中丧生的母亲，以及他与哥哥沙里姆如何认识了拉媞卡（芙蕾达·平托饰）,他一生的挚爱。     <br />&#160;&#160;&#160; 三个无家可归的年轻人被一所孤儿院收容，每天以乞讨为生。但是孤儿院的负责人却想弄瞎他们的眼睛以增加乞讨收入，于是他们逃走了。然而在他们爬火车时拉媞卡却因意外失足，再被孤儿院的人抓去。兄弟俩在泰姬陵附近暂时住下来，贾马尔以给游客提供导游服务为生，而沙里姆则与街头混混趁机偷取旅客的财物。     <br />&#160;&#160;&#160; 但是贾马尔对拉媞卡的思念并没有因时间的流逝而减少。最终他说服沙里姆一起回到孟买寻找拉媞卡，可是一系列的变故使得他虽然见到了拉媞卡，却再次失去了她──她被黑帮老大夺去；而兄长沙里姆也成了黑帮的一员。     <br />&#160;&#160;&#160; 于是贾马尔想到了来参加这个电视节目，因为他知道这是拉媞卡最喜欢的节目，她一定会看到他。此时，隔在贾马尔与2000万卢比之间的，只剩下最后一个问题。     <br />&#160;&#160;&#160; 警方认为贾马尔的故事“虽然怪诞，但貌似有理”,于是放他回去继续参赛。拉媞卡果然在电视上看到了他，沙里姆此时也幡然醒悟，给了拉媞卡车钥匙与电话，催她快去找贾马尔。最后一个问题是“请说出三个火枪手的名字”,贾马尔并不知道，于是他使用了电话求助。电话打给他的兄长沙里姆，接听的却是拉媞卡。贾马尔听到她的声音固然兴奋，但可惜拉媞卡也答不上这个问题。于是贾马尔猜了一个答案，可喜的是他猜对了！而此时沙里姆为了能让他们幸福地生活在一起，也与黑帮老大同归于尽。     <br />&#160;&#160;&#160; 那天晚上，贾马尔与拉媞卡终于在火车站相见。他们忘情拥吻，有情人终成眷属…… </p>  <p></p>  <p></p>  <p>&#160;&#160; <font color="#000080">晚上回来花了两个小时把这部电影看完，拍的不错，很感人。<font face="宋体" size="2">在印度看真是深有体会，很多场景在这边都可以看得到。看电影可能是一种享受，可真的在这里生活又是另一种事了。：（</font></font></p>  <p><a href="http://david1206.blogbus.com/files/20090310024138.jpeg"><font color="#000080"><img title="20090307009" style="border-top-width: 0px; display: block; border-left-width: 0px; float: none; border-bottom-width: 0px; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; border-right-width: 0px" height="275" alt="20090307009" src="http://david1206.blogbus.com/files/20090310024147.jpeg" width="365" border="0" /></font></a><font color="#000080"> </font></p>  <p><font color="#000080">Show 一下这边的晚餐。中午天天批萨，晚上不知道吃什么好？</font></p>  <!--sp--><div class="relpost"><br/><h3>随机文章：</h3><div><a href="/logs/36345051.html">测试一下</a> 2009-03-09</div><div><a href="/logs/32454723.html">Wait for you</a> 2008-12-13</div><div><a href="/logs/28330543.html">困惑</a> 2008-08-30</div><div><a href="/logs/22387497.html">世界好友周快乐！</a> 2008-06-06</div><div><a href="/logs/21524712.html">初步的决定！</a> 2008-05-24</div></div><div class="addfav"><br />收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a href="http://delicious.com/save?url=http%3A%2F%2Fdavid1206.blogbus.com%2Flogs%2F36355014.html&title=Slumdog+Millionaire">Del.icio.us</a></span></div><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://zhuanti.blogbus.com/kfc20/article/list" target="_blank">上海肯德基20年Say Yes-光阴的故事</a></b></div><br /><br />]]></description>
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   <author>David Gong</author>
   <pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 02:41:51 +0800</pubDate>
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   <description><![CDATA[<p>WLW支持blogbus了，试一下。</p>  <!--sp--><div class="relpost"><br/><h3>随机文章：</h3><div><a href="/logs/36355014.html">Slumdog Millionaire</a> 2009-03-10</div><div><a href="/logs/22387497.html">世界好友周快乐！</a> 2008-06-06</div><div><a href="/logs/21524712.html">初步的决定！</a> 2008-05-24</div><div><a href="/logs/21131499.html">心情比较Down！</a> 2008-05-18</div><div><a href="/logs/20940540.html">木桶定律</a> 2008-05-15</div></div><div class="addfav"><br />收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a href="http://delicious.com/save?url=http%3A%2F%2Fdavid1206.blogbus.com%2Flogs%2F36345051.html&title=%E6%B5%8B%E8%AF%95%E4%B8%80%E4%B8%8B">Del.icio.us</a></span></div><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://icity.cn" target="_blank">《城客》：第一本中文互动杂志！</a></b></div><br /><br />]]></description>
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   <author>David Gong</author>
   <pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2009 21:45:44 +0800</pubDate>
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   <title>坚持</title>
   <description><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://public.blogbus.com/biaoqing/daodao/48/11.gif" border="0" alt="" />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 发现自己越来越难坚持做一件事了。</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 以前还能坚持天天按时上下学，小学到高中，没有一次迟到。大学慢慢就变了，迟到倒是不敢，早退就有了。现在上班了，公司不要求打卡，天天也不是按时上班了，其实每天那个时候已经醒了，可就是不想起来。不知道为什么？</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 现在决定重拾以前的好习惯，开始坚持做些事了。相信会给我带来惊喜的。</p><!--sp--><div class="relpost"><br/><h3>随机文章：</h3><div><a href="/logs/28330543.html">困惑</a> 2008-08-30</div><div><a href="/logs/27937911.html">刘翔？！</a> 2008-08-20</div><div><a href="/logs/23547555.html">Incredible India</a> 2008-06-25</div><div><a href="/logs/21131499.html">心情比较Down！</a> 2008-05-18</div><div><a href="/logs/20978799.html">宁静的周末</a> 2008-05-16</div></div><div class="addfav"><br />收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a href="http://delicious.com/save?url=http%3A%2F%2Fdavid1206.blogbus.com%2Flogs%2F34368434.html&title=%E5%9D%9A%E6%8C%81">Del.icio.us</a></span></div><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://zhuanti.blogbus.com/kfc20/article/list" target="_blank">上海肯德基20年Say Yes-光阴的故事</a></b></div><br /><br />]]></description>
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   <author>David Gong</author>
   <pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2009 21:43:24 +0800</pubDate>
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   <title>Wait for you</title>
   <description><![CDATA[<p>最近一直都在听Elliott Yamin的这首 Wait for you，朋友推荐的！</p><p>&nbsp;<a href="http://www.bababian.com/phoinfo/335CF01F2C05701B887B4863FF87AD06DT" target="_blank"><img style="border: medium none " src="http://photo1.bababian.com/upload13/20081213/335CF01F2C05701B887B4863FF87AD06.jpg" alt="" /></a></p>
<p><font face="'黑体', sans-serif" size="3"><strong>歌手：</strong>elliott yamin&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>专辑：</strong>elliott yamin 
    [Verse 1]</font></p><p><font face="'黑体', sans-serif" size="3"><br />I never felt nothing in the world like this before<br />Now I'm missing you<br />&amp; I'm wishing that you would come back through my door<br />Why did you have to go? You could have let me know<br />So now I'm all alone,<br />Girl you could have stayed<br />but you wouldnt give me a chance<br />With you not around it's a little bit more then i can stand<br />And all my tears they keep running down my face<br />Why did you turn away?<br /><br />So why does your pride make you run and hide?<br />Are you that afraid of me?<br />But I know it's a lie what you keep inside<br />This is not how you wanted to be<br /><br />So baby I will wait for you<br />Cause I don''t know what else i can do<br />Don't tell me I ran out of time<br />If it takes the rest of my life<br />Elliott Yamin<br />Baby I will wait for you<br />If you think I'm fine it just aint true<br />I really need you in my life<br />No matter what i have to do I'll wait for you<br />[Verse 2]<br />It's been a long time since you called me<br />(How could you forget about me)<br />You got me feeling crazy (crazy)<br />How can you walk away,<br />Everything stays the same<br />I just can't do it baby<br />What will it take to make you come back<br />Girl I told you what it is &amp; it just ain't like that<br />Why can't you look at me, your still in love with me<br />Don't leave me crying.<br /><br />Baby why can't we just start over again<br />Get it back to the way it was<br />If you give me a chance I can love you right<br />But your telling me it wont be enough<br /><br />So baby I will wait for you<br />Don't tell me I ran out of time<br />If it takes the rest of my life<br />Baby I will wait for you<br />If you think I'm fine it just aint true<br />I really need you in my life<br />No matter what i have to do I'll wait for you<br /><br />So why does you pride make you run &amp; hide<br />Are you that afriad of me?<br />But I know it's a lie what your keeping inside<br />Thats not how you wanted to be<br />Baby I will wait for you<br />Baby I will wait for you<br />If it's the last thing i do<br /><br />Baby I will wait for you<br />Cause I don''t know what else i can do<br />Don't tell me I ran out of time<br />If it takes the rest of my life<br />Baby I will wait for you<br />If you think I'm fine it just aint true<br />I really need you in my life<br />No matter what i have to do I'll wait for you<br />I'll Be Waiting.</font>
    
  


  
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   <author>David Gong</author>
   <pubDate>Sat, 13 Dec 2008 17:36:14 +0800</pubDate>
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   <description><![CDATA[<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 又有一个要好的同事要去HW了，很高的薪水。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; 也不知道当时放弃去HW是对还是错。HW的高薪对于我来说的确是一个很大的诱惑。薪水在武汉不算低，但还是感觉不够用。 </p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; PS:今天同学对我说射手座是Fatal Attraction，也许是吧！</p><!--sp--><div class="relpost"><br/><h3>随机文章：</h3><div><a href="/logs/32454723.html">Wait for you</a> 2008-12-13</div><div><a href="/logs/25236174.html">终于回国了！</a> 2008-07-21</div><div><a href="/logs/23455086.html">和同事相处好的30个原则</a> 2008-06-23</div><div><a href="/logs/21524712.html">初步的决定！</a> 2008-05-24</div><div><a href="/logs/21058974.html">ZTE面试归来</a> 2008-05-17</div></div><div class="addfav"><br />收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a href="http://delicious.com/save?url=http%3A%2F%2Fdavid1206.blogbus.com%2Flogs%2F28330543.html&title=%E5%9B%B0%E6%83%91">Del.icio.us</a></span></div><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://icity.cn" target="_blank">《城客》：第一本中文互动杂志！</a></b></div><br /><br />]]></description>
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   <author>David Gong</author>
   <pubDate>Sat, 30 Aug 2008 10:56:59 +0800</pubDate>
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   <description><![CDATA[&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 刘翔还是在最后关头选择了退出比赛。 <p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 其实他早就知道自己不能参加奥运会了，只是不明白，为什么了非要作秀的表演一下，在退出。 </p><p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 选择退出，大家并没有怪你，只是为什么要欺骗全国的观众。好多的人就是为了看你刘翔的比赛而去特意买票去的，我一个同事就花了一千多买的高价票。当好多人知道刘翔不能比赛了，纷纷退场。不知道刘翔当时是怎么想的。 </p><p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 不知道是屈从于什么利益团体。这不是奥林匹克，不是奥运精神！！！ </p><!--sp--><div class="relpost"><br/><h3>随机文章：</h3><div><a href="/logs/34368434.html">坚持</a> 2009-01-27</div><div><a href="/logs/23547555.html">Incredible India</a> 2008-06-25</div><div><a href="/logs/21131499.html">心情比较Down！</a> 2008-05-18</div><div><a href="/logs/20978799.html">宁静的周末</a> 2008-05-16</div><div><a href="/logs/20940540.html">木桶定律</a> 2008-05-15</div></div><div class="addfav"><br />收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a href="http://delicious.com/save?url=http%3A%2F%2Fdavid1206.blogbus.com%2Flogs%2F27937911.html&title=%E5%88%98%E7%BF%94%EF%BC%9F%EF%BC%81">Del.icio.us</a></span></div><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://zhuanti.blogbus.com/kfc20/article/list" target="_blank">上海肯德基20年Say Yes-光阴的故事</a></b></div><br /><br />]]></description>
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   <author>David Gong</author>
   <pubDate>Wed, 20 Aug 2008 17:34:58 +0800</pubDate>
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   <description><![CDATA[<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 下午两点多的飞机到武汉，再经过两个小时的颠簸终于到家了！新的武汉天河机场还不错！</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; 回家后，丧失了回来之前的兴奋，还是跟以前一样，生活回复了平静。再就是等着好友请我吃饭和我请好友吃饭了。原以为在国外的两个月的时间足够把问题想清楚的，却发现还是没有头绪。随着日期的逼近，越发难以抉择了。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; 发现大家好像过得都挺开心的，都有明确的目标，在武汉的，出去闯的。我却一直在摇摆，不知道该做哪个决定。总是拿着自己跟别人比来比去，这个去哪里赚钱多，我也要去试试；那个工作比较有发展前去，也想去。其实呢，也许自己并不是很喜欢。 </p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; 生活是自己的，不是用来和别人比的，也许只有找到自己真正想要的才会觉得开心和满足。 </p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; 道理都知道，可就是做不了决定。也没有人能帮你，一千个人一千个意见，都是站在自己的立场看的，并不能帮你作出决定。 </p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp; </p><!--sp--><div class="relpost"><br/><h3>随机文章：</h3><div><a href="http://david1206.blogbus.com/logs/21524712.html">初步的决定！</a> 2008-05-24</div><div><a href="/logs/36355014.html">Slumdog Millionaire</a> 2009-03-10</div><div><a href="/logs/34368434.html">坚持</a> 2009-01-27</div><div><a href="/logs/32454723.html">Wait for you</a> 2008-12-13</div><div><a href="/logs/28330543.html">困惑</a> 2008-08-30</div></div><div class="addfav"><br />收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a href="http://delicious.com/save?url=http%3A%2F%2Fdavid1206.blogbus.com%2Flogs%2F25236174.html&title=%E7%BB%88%E4%BA%8E%E5%9B%9E%E5%9B%BD%E4%BA%86%EF%BC%81">Del.icio.us</a></span></div><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://zhuanti.blogbus.com/kfc20/article/list" target="_blank">上海肯德基20年Say Yes-光阴的故事</a></b></div><br /><br />]]></description>
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   <author>David Gong</author>
   <pubDate>Mon, 21 Jul 2008 22:46:32 +0800</pubDate>
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   <description><![CDATA[<p>Simplifying can sometimes be overwhelming. The amount of stuff you have in your life and the amount of things you have to do can be too big a mountain to tackle.</p><p><br />But you don&rsquo;t have to simplify it all at once. Do one thing at a time, and take small steps. You&rsquo;ll get there, and have fun doing it.<br /><br />In fact, you can do little but important things today to start living the simple life.<br /><br />I was criticized a few weeks ago when I published the Simple Living Manifesto: 72 Ideas to Simplify Your Life, because many people felt the list was too long. I heard this point, and this post is my response: just the 10 most important things.<br /><br />And these are not 10 difficult things, but 10 simple things that you can do today. Not tomorrow, not next week, not next month. Today. Choose one and do it today. Tomorrow, choose another.<br /><br />If you do these 10 things, you&rsquo;ll have made great strides with little effort.<br /><br />1. Make a short list. Take out a sheet of paper and fold it into a small square, perhaps 3&times;5 inches. Or take out an index card. Now make a short list of the 4-5 most important things in your life. What&rsquo;s most important to you? What do you value most? What 4-5 things do you most want to do in your life? Simplifying starts with these priorities, as you are trying to make room in your life so you have more time for these things.<br /><br />2. Drop 1 commitment. Think about all the things in your life that you&rsquo;re committed to doing, and try to find one that you dread doing. Something that takes up time but doesn&rsquo;t give you much value. Perhaps you&rsquo;re on a team, or coaching something, or on a board or committee, or whatever. Something that you do each day or week or month that you don&rsquo;t really want to do. Now take action today to drop that commitment. Call someone, send an email, telling the appropriate person or people that you just don&rsquo;t have the time. You will feel relief. I&rsquo;d recommend dropping all commitments that don&rsquo;t contribute to your short list (from Item #1), but for today, just drop 1 commitment.<br /><br />3. Purge a drawer. Or a shelf, or a countertop, or a corner of a room. Not an entire room or even an entire closet. Just one small area. You can use that small area as your base of simplicity, and then expand from there. Here&rsquo;s how to purge: 1) empty everything from the drawer or shelf or corner into a pile. 2) From this pile, pick out only the most important things, the stuff you use and love. 3) Get rid of the rest. Right now. Trash it, or put it in your car to give away or donate. 4) Put the stuff you love and use back, in a neat and orderly manner.<br /><br />4. Set limits. Read Haiku Productivity for more. Basically, you set limits for things you do regularly: email, RSS posts, tasks, feeds, items in your life, etc. And try to stick with the limits. Today, all you have to do is set limits for a few things in your life. Tomorrow, try to stick with them.<br /><br />5. Simplify your to-do list. Take a look at your to-do list. If it&rsquo;s more than 10 items long, you can probably simplify it a bit. Try to find at least a few items that can be eliminated, delegated, automated, outsourced, or ignored. Shorten the list. This is a good habit to do once a week.<br /><br />6. Free up time. Simplifying your life in general is a way to free up time to do the stuff you want to do. Unfortunately, it can be hard to find time to even think about how to simplify your life. If that&rsquo;s the case, free up at least 30 minutes a day for thinking about simplifying. Or alternatively, free up a weekend and think about it then. How can you free up 30 minutes a day? Just a few ideas: wake earlier, watch less TV, eat lunch at your desk, take a walk for lunch, disconnect from the Internet, do email only once today, shut off your phones, do 1 less thing each day.<br /><br />7. Clear your desk. I can personally attest to the amazing feeling that a clean desk can give you. It&rsquo;s such a simple thing to do, and yet it does so much for you. If your desk is covered with papers and notes and gadgets and office supplies, you might not be able to get this done today. But here are the basic steps: 1) Clear everything off your desk and put it in a pile (either in your inbox or on the floor). 2) Process the pile from top to bottom, one item at a time. Do not defer decisions on any item &mdash; deal with them immediately and quickly. 3) For each item, either file it immediately, route it to someone else, trash it, or note it on your to-do list (and put it in an &ldquo;action&rdquo; folder). If it&rsquo;s a gadget or office supply, find a place for it in your desk drawers (or get rid of it). 4) Repeat until your pile is empty and your desk is clear. Be sure to get rid of any knick knacks. Your desk should have your computer, your inbox, perhaps a notepad, and maybe a family photo (but not many). Ahh, a clear desk! 5) From now on, put everything in your inbox, and at least once a day, process it in the same way as above.<br /><br />8. Clear out your email inbox. This has the same psychological effect as a clear desk. Is your email inbox always full of read and unread messages? That&rsquo;s because you&rsquo;re delaying decisions on your emails. If you have 50, let&rsquo;s say, or fewer emails in your inbox, you can process them all today. If you have hundreds, you should put them in a temporary folder and get to them one chunk at a time (do 20 per day or something). Here&rsquo;s how you process your inbox to empty &mdash; including emails already in your inbox, and all future incoming emails: 1) process them top to bottom, one at a time, deciding and disposing of each one immediately. 2) Your choices are to delete, archive, respond immediately (and archive or delete), forward (and archive or delete), or mark it with a star (or something like that) and note it on your to-do list to respond to later (and archive). 3) Process each email like that until the inbox is empty. 4) Each time you check your email, process to empty. Ahh, an empty inbox!<br /><br />9. Move slower. We rush through the day, from one task to another, from one appointment to another, until we collapse on the couch, exhausted, at the end of the day. Instead, simplify your life by doing less (see Items 1, 4 and 5) and doing them more slowly. Eat slower, drive slower, walk slower, shower slower, work slower. Be more deliberate. Be present. This isn&rsquo;t something you&rsquo;re going to master today, but you can start practicing today.<br /><br />10. Single-task. Instead of multi-tasking, do one thing at a time. Remove all distractions, resist any urge to check email or do some other habitual task like that while you&rsquo;re doing the task at hand. Stick to that one task, until you&rsquo;re done. It&rsquo;ll make a huge difference in both your stress level and your productivity.</p><!--sp--><div class="relpost"><br/><h3>随机文章：</h3><div><a href="/logs/36345051.html">测试一下</a> 2009-03-09</div><div><a href="/logs/23455086.html">和同事相处好的30个原则</a> 2008-06-23</div><div><a href="/logs/22387497.html">世界好友周快乐！</a> 2008-06-06</div><div><a href="/logs/20978799.html">宁静的周末</a> 2008-05-16</div><div><a href="/logs/20940540.html">木桶定律</a> 2008-05-15</div></div><div class="addfav"><br />收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a href="http://delicious.com/save?url=http%3A%2F%2Fdavid1206.blogbus.com%2Flogs%2F23625060.html&title=Simple+Living+Simplified%3A+10+Things+You+Can+Do+Today+to+Simplify+Your+Life">Del.icio.us</a></span></div><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://icity.cn" target="_blank">《城客》：第一本中文互动杂志！</a></b></div><br /><br />]]></description>
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   <pubDate>Thu, 26 Jun 2008 16:35:35 +0800</pubDate>
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   <description><![CDATA[<p><font size="2">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 刚来印度，可以看见街上广告牌，报纸上都写着&quot;Incredible India&quot;的宣传标语。时间长了，才对这句话有了深刻的了解，的确是令人吃惊的印度！</font></p><p><a href="http://www.bababian.com/phoinfo/4752B2C539D0EE8DECD41E94C5A0CD39DT" target="_blank"><div style="text-align: center"><font size="2"><img style="border: medium none" src="http://photo1.bababian.com/upload11/20080524/4752B2C539D0EE8DECD41E94C5A0CD39_500.jpg" alt="" /></font></div></a></p><p><font size="2">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;前年第一次来印度前，上网查了下，就觉得很恐怖：天涯上到处爬满人火车的照片，左手上厕所右手吃饭的习惯，街上到处可见被奉为神灵的牛&hellip;&hellip;当时心里还存着一丝的侥幸，以为是供大家娱乐的笑话。来了才知道，确实如此。</font></p><p><font size="2">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 闷热的气候，破烂不堪的建筑，数不清的贫民窟，还有空气中无名的怪味&hellip;&hellip;脏乱是印度所有城市的特点，不管是政治中心德里，还是商业中心孟买。垃圾到处都是，厚重的汽车尾气，最让人受不了的是随地小便的习惯，街道两边，拉下裤子就可以开始了，走在街上有种让人窒息的感觉。没有门的公交车，到站都不停，自己跳上跳下，佩服印度人的身体素质啊！随处可见悠闲自得的神牛，运气好的话还可以看见市中心的树上玩耍的猴。真是人畜&quot;和谐&quot;的社会啊！路边到处是要饭的乞丐，经常拖家带口，车一停就趴在窗口要钱。</font></p><p><font size="2">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 这就是一个成天吹嘘要和中国比的印度，一个自认为世界第三的印度！（印度阿三的由来）</font></p><!--sp--><div class="relpost"><br/><h3>随机文章：</h3><div><a href="/logs/34368434.html">坚持</a> 2009-01-27</div><div><a href="/logs/32454723.html">Wait for you</a> 2008-12-13</div><div><a href="/logs/27937911.html">刘翔？！</a> 2008-08-20</div><div><a href="/logs/23455086.html">和同事相处好的30个原则</a> 2008-06-23</div><div><a href="/logs/21131499.html">心情比较Down！</a> 2008-05-18</div></div><div class="addfav"><br />收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a href="http://delicious.com/save?url=http%3A%2F%2Fdavid1206.blogbus.com%2Flogs%2F23547555.html&title=Incredible+India">Del.icio.us</a></span></div><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://icity.cn" target="_blank">《城客》：第一本中文互动杂志！</a></b></div><br /><br />]]></description>
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   <author>David Gong</author>
   <pubDate>Wed, 25 Jun 2008 12:32:21 +0800</pubDate>
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   <description><![CDATA[<p style="font-size: 10.5pt; margin: 0in; font-family: 宋体; text-align: left"><span style="font-size: 0.9em">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 1.无论发生什么事情，都要首先想到自己是不是做错了。如果自己没错（那是不可能的），那么就站在对方的角度，体验一下对方的感觉。<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 2.让自己去适应环境，因为环境永远不会来适应你。即使这是一个非常非常痛苦的过程。<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 3.大方一点。不会大方就学大方一点。如果大方真的会让你很心疼，那就装大方一点。<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 4.低调一点，低调一点，再低调一点（要比临时工还要低调，可能在别人眼中你还不如一个干了几年的临时工呢）。<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 5.嘴要甜，平常不要吝惜你的喝彩声。（会夸奖人。好的夸奖，会让人产生愉悦感，但不要过头到令人反感。）<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 6.如果你觉得最近一段时间工作顺利的不得了，那你就要加小心了。<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 7.有礼貌。打招呼时要看着对方的眼睛。以长辈的称呼和年纪大的人沟通，因为你就是不折不扣小子辈。<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 8.少说多做。言多必失，人多的场合少说话。<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 9.不要把别人的好，视为理所当然，要知道感恩。<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 10.手高眼低。<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 11.遵守时间，但不要期望别人也遵守时间。<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 12.信首诺言，但不要轻易许诺。更不要把别人对你的承诺一直记在心上并信以为真。<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 13.不要向同事借钱，如果借了，那么一定要准时还。<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 14.不要借钱给同事，如果不得不借，那么就当送给他好了。<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 15.不要推脱责任（即使是别人的责任。偶尔承担一次你会死啊？）。<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 16.在一个同事的后面不要说另一个同事的坏话。要坚持在背后说别人好话，别担心这好话传不到当事人耳朵里。如果有人在你面前说某人坏话时，你要微笑。<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 17.避免和同事公开对立（包括公开提出反对意见，激烈的更不可取）。<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 18.经常帮助别人，但是不能让被帮的人觉得理所应当。<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 19.说实话会让你倒大霉。<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 20.对事不对人；或对事无情，对人要有情；或做人第一，做事其次。<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 21.经常检查自己是不是又自负了，又骄傲了，又看不起别人了。（即使你有通天之才没有别人的合作和帮助也是白搭）<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 22.忍耐是人生的必修课。（要忍耐一生的啊，有的人一辈子到死这门功课也不及格）<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 23.新到一个地方，不要急于融入到其中哪个圈子里去。等到了足够的时间，属于你的那个圈子会自动接纳你。<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 24.有一颗平常心。没什么大不了的，好事要往坏处想，坏事要往好处想。<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 25.尽量不要发生办公室恋情，如果实在避免不了，那就在办公室避免任何形式的身体接触，包括眼神。（如果你或者对方已婚，--恭喜你，兄弟。你，死，定，了！！！）<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 26.会拍马屁（这是和顶头上司沟通的重要途径之一），但小心不要弄脏手。切忌用舌头去舔马屁。<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 27.资历非常重要。不要和老家伙们耍心眼斗法，否则你回死得很难看的。<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 28.好心有时不会有好结果，但不能因此而灰心。<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 29.待上以敬，待下以宽。<br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 30.如果你带领一个团队，在总结工作时要把错误都揽在自己身上，把功劳都记在下属身上。当上司和下属同时在场时要记得及时表扬你的下属。批评人的时候一定要在只有你们两个人的情况下才能进行。<br /></span></p><!--sp--><div class="relpost"><br/><h3>随机文章：</h3><div><a href="/logs/28330543.html">困惑</a> 2008-08-30</div><div><a href="/logs/23625060.html">Simple Living Simplified: 10 Things You Can Do Today to Simplify Your Life</a> 2008-06-26</div><div><a href="/logs/22387497.html">世界好友周快乐！</a> 2008-06-06</div><div><a href="/logs/20978799.html">宁静的周末</a> 2008-05-16</div><div><a href="/logs/20940540.html">木桶定律</a> 2008-05-15</div></div><div class="addfav"><br />收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a href="http://delicious.com/save?url=http%3A%2F%2Fdavid1206.blogbus.com%2Flogs%2F23455086.html&title=%E5%92%8C%E5%90%8C%E4%BA%8B%E7%9B%B8%E5%A4%84%E5%A5%BD%E7%9A%8430%E4%B8%AA%E5%8E%9F%E5%88%99">Del.icio.us</a></span></div><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://icity.cn" target="_blank">《城客》：第一本中文互动杂志！</a></b></div><br /><br />]]></description>
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   <author>David Gong</author>
   <pubDate>Mon, 23 Jun 2008 19:04:23 +0800</pubDate>
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